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The two-week wait

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The days between transfer and test day, hour by slow hour.

Between an embryo transfer and the official test there is a stretch of days that treatment somehow makes both empty and unbearable: nothing to do, everything to feel, and a body that offers a fresh ambiguous signal every hour. The threads in this section are readers keeping each other company through exactly that stretch.

A gentle note on these threads

Reading other people's two-week waits can steady you, and it can also mislead you, sometimes in the same thread. Symptoms during this fortnight are famously uninformative in both directions: readers here have described identical days that ended in opposite results. So take the company, and try to leave the symptom-matching behind; nobody's day 6 tells you anything about yours.

The site's guide to the two-week wait explains what is actually happening during these days and why home tests taken early so often mislead, and coping with the emotional side of treatment has the longer view for when one wait turns into several. And whatever a thread here suggests, your official test date and anything about your own cycle belong with your clinic; they are the only ones with your chart.