Mrs Okafor said:
I don't really understand why a tube matters if IVF doesn't use them
It's a very fair question. IVF doesn't need the tubes, that's true, but a hydrosalpinx is the one kind of tubal problem that can still affect it. The tube is blocked at its far end and fills with fluid, and that fluid can drain back into the womb, where it is thought to make it harder for an embryo to implant. That's why many clinics recommend dealing with it before a transfer.
The evidence here is reasonably good. A Cochrane review of the trials found that removing the affected tube by laparoscopy, or blocking it off where it joins the womb, before IVF increased the odds of pregnancy compared with doing nothing. The trials didn't report live births, so the size of the benefit for a baby at the end is less certain, but the direction is consistent, and it's the reason your consultant is recommending it. Occlusion rather than removal is sometimes chosen when surgery would be more difficult, and that's a reasonable thing to ask her about.
On the timing worry, it's worth asking her directly how long she would want you to wait between the surgery and the transfer, and how that fits with your age and your frozen embryo, which isn't ageing in the freezer. Emma has written up how the tubes are checked in fertility tests and investigations. Whether surgery is right in your case is a decision for you and your consultant, who has your scans.